If you’re planning on behaving like your boyfriend’s mother or maid, you may as well not be in the relationship in the first place. If you start cleaning up his room, running his errands, doing his laundry and completing other odd jobs for him, he is only going to end up taking you for granted. Let him be responsible enough to handle his own chores. Behave like a girlfriend and nothing more because that’s the image that he needs to have of you. You can have a chat with him and let him know of the same.
Give Him An Ultimatum
If you’re unhappy with the way the relationship is being handled, he needs to be aware of that. You need to put your foot down and tell him to get his act together. Let him know that you’re not afraid of walking out on him if things in the relationship don’t improve. Give him a time frame within which he can make the necessary changes and if you find that he is still unfazed, confidently walk out without ever looking back. However, in most cases guys get their act together when they see that a woman is very serious about her ultimatum.
Take A Break If Need Be
Once a relationship hits that spot where it has become a comfort relationship, all attempts to do anything special go out of the window. While your boyfriend may be absolutely comfortable with the monotony and rut in the relationship, you may expect a lot more from him. If you aren’t able to come to a common ground of understanding with him, you can consider going on a break. When you go on a break, your boyfriend will realise how serious you are and will begin to fear that he may lose you all together if he doesn’t get things on track.