If your spouse has admitted to feeling guilty, but still went on with the affair anyway, you need to figure out what made the affair last so long. You need to find out what it was that sustained the affair so that you are able to take a decision about your marriage with your spouse and register on a dating app later on. Maybe your spouse had genuinely developed feelings for the other woman, or she was emotionally blackmailing him, which is why the affair continued for as long as it did. You need to ask the following questions so that you can save your relationship.
Do You Have Feelings For Her?
He may not give you an honest answer to this question, but even then you should be able to get an idea of how he feels from his body language. If he does have feelings for the other woman, then it’s obvious that you need to move out of the picture. He can’t have his cake and keep it too. If he is truly apologetic about his behavior and tells you honestly that he has no feelings for her, then maybe you can consider giving him a chance.
Did The Both Of You Ever Discuss A Future Together?
Well, if he has been discussing a future with the other woman, then it is clear that he has moved on from your marriage. A man will only discuss the possibility of a future with another woman when he knows that there is nothing left in his current marriage. If he says that he hasn’t made any future plans of had any discussions of the future with her, there may be a chance that you and your spouse can work on your marriage and fix it.